Voices for Voices

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Connecting and Finding Our Voices

What is your communication style? Do you prefer sitting quietly with friends spending time together, having coffee, making art, connecting with spontaneity and moments of dialogue? Communication styles differ from person to person and subculture to subculture. Perhaps you prefer lectures. Or groups in which the leader alternates exchanges with the audience like alternating spokes on a wheel. Maybe you have difficulty finding words. Perhaps, on the other hand, your communication is fluid and easy.

What about posture? With eye contact, do you prefer intermittent gaze or minimal eye contact? Do you gently avert your eyes while listening? Is your posture leaning forward, arms crossed, focused on problem-solving? You may have a poised approach or lean back in your chair. Is your focus heightened and productivity improved through virtual or in-person expression? Do you prefer acts of service, affection, gifts, or quality time over words? And, of all these styles, not just in the moment, but over the long view, what is good for your mental well-being and ability to contribute fully?

The answers to these questions are often taken for granted. As we rapidly approach 8 billion people, the range of human experience is seemingly endless. Our neurodiversity is challenging and beautiful. When I first learned of Voices for Voices, I was quickly drawn to the name. It brought to mind giving voice to those who feel unheard. It is a common desire to be acknowledged or heard. And with so many approaches, it is of great importance that we have options for communicating with and serving one another. 

Voices for Voices’ Mission overlaps with my values. In my roles in the field of mental health, one of my highest priorities is teaching clinicians to listen to those they serve, to collaborate, and to be fully present. To give honor to the individual before them. Seeing rapid change in supervisee or client development has not been a driving concern of mine. While change is valued and does happen, acceptance and compassion are the initial emphasis. Fortunately, with acceptance present, even without urgent concern for change, many individuals find themselves changing, growing, and experiencing greater fulfillment. 

While my backgrounds in clinical supervision, spiritual care, and several other areas of focus are important, leadership in mental health and specifically art therapy has been a constant for 25 years.  In art therapy, you hear “It is the process, not the product, that matters most.” For graduate students, those in post graduate supervision, and clients, that quiet moment of dipping the paintbrush, putting line, shape, and color to canvas, is crucial. Being present while sculpting, illustrating, or building and sharing this communication with others is at the core of this self-expression. Having one’s process witnessed and honored allows the individual to be seen, heard, and valued in a different manner than words alone allow. 

Voices for Voices is a refreshing nonprofit organization that guides individuals in need of resources, medical and mental health services, and career development supports. By providing people with practical resources, the organization gives voice to those who may otherwise find themselves silenced. Events include a wide range of creativity incorporating music, art, in-person, and virtual options to meet the needs of diverse peoples. Since my involvement began in 2021, I have appreciated being able to be contribute time and being able to see the rapid growth of Voices for Voices. I am fortunate to be part of this organization that gives voice to so many. Thank you Voices for Voices, for your valuable work in our community, both near and far!